I had been saying I was ready (Here), but nothing had happened the whole week. I was actually feeling really good and worked on Friday all day. I picked up Alex from preschool and we drove home, it was a nice evening. We went outside after we were home and I decided to pull some weeds here and there. It has been tough for me to bend over because of my big belly. But, I did it anyways, just carefully. Maybe this was the “burst of energy” people tell you about before you go into labor, I don’t know…
Lance came home and made a side comment – you shouldn’t be working so hard, you’re trying to have this baby, aren’t you? Relax, rest, etc.
We had dinner that Friday night and I put Alex to bed, it was my turn. We read 3 books of his choosing, rubbed his back, had 2 hugs and 2 kisses and made the dimmer JUST right, only one time (otherwise he’ll ask for endless adjustments).
Not long after that I went pee and found lots of blood. I was a little freaked since it was bright red and there was quite a bit. About a week earlier I had some very light spotting, probably due to my cervix dilating. Normal stuff, I wasn’t worried about. I decided to use a new pad and wait and see what was happening. I waited about 1 hour and still quite a bit of blood.
I called my doula and told her what was happening, she suggested to call the maternity center and just make sure everything was OK. So, I called them and they agreed – come in and get monitored for a bit and just make sure.
We called my Mom to come and stay with Alex, even though I was pretty sure that I would just be monitored and be sent home, but it’s better to be safe, right? I was telling her all the things that were happening instead of asking for what I needed – so she finally asked me the question “So, do you want me to come up there?” I wavered a bit – not really sure what I wanted or needed, and finally said “yes”. I wanted to get to the hospital ASAP and see what was going on, but Lance had to wait for my Mom to get there. So, I decided to drive myself to the hospital (again) and Lance would join me after my Mom arrived at our house.
I probably arrived at the hospital around 9 or 9:30 PM and Lance got there around 11 PM. When I got there my heart was racing and so was baby girls heart. We were scared – this was reminding me of what happened last time a little too much. The nurse checked my pad and agreed that it was a lot of blood, too much to be not worried about it. Also, when I got to the hospital and went to the bathroom, I passed a “half-dollar” size clot. I thought it was the dreaded mucus plug, but it wasn’t. It could’ve been from the dilating cervix, or from a little placental abruption (where part of the placenta pulls away from the uterus). It could be dangerous if it was an abruption, but little girl looked pretty happy, albeit with a high heart rate.
The hospital OB came to visit me after the nurse did a full work up and monitored me for about 30 minutes. They did a speculum exam, OUCH!, and tried to see where the blood was coming from. They were not able to tell. She checked me and I was about 5 cm dilated and was having semi-regular contractions, just ones that I couldn’t feel that much and weren’t painful to me at all.
With me coming in at 5 cm, 80% effaced, VBAC, with a prior history of pre-eclampsia, contracting and bleeding – they weren’t letting me go. I was officially declared “in labor” and was admitted to the hospital.
Lance and I called the doula and told her to come – I was “in labor”.
Everyone had the funniest reaction – You are 5 cm and still walking around/you worked today/you don’t feel the contractions?
The answers - Yes/Yes/No
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I'm anxiously awaiting Part 2 of the birth story! Is a doula the same as a midwife? Aunt Peggy
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